Spreading The Love

By Catherine Lang-Cline

We go through our lives doing the same thing every day. We wake up, we eat, we go to work, we hang out with family and friends, we go to bed, and restart the next day the same way. A normal life can be a lovely thing. Sometimes we want something more. Sometimes we wish we could make some sort of difference outside of the walls of our home, our work, wherever our life is taking place. 

Let’s say that the best thing about your job is that it can pay your bills. You are not the only one that feels that way. What if you could escape that job and the daily march of your day and do something that touches your soul and warms your heart, maybe something that changes a life or changes the world around you. One of the best ways to achieve that "difference" is to volunteer or join groups that match your passion or a group that can appreciate and use your talents. Spread the love! 

Let’s start simple. Maybe your head sings when you read? Head to the library or bookstore and browse. Don’t leave without picking up something. Maybe to are ready to join a book club that will hold you accountable? Do you love knitting or racing or back in the day you used to camp more? Find ways to find that love again. Sure, it can sometimes feel ridiculous or someone may try and talk you out of it, but this what YOU need to show YOU that you love YOU. Who cares if you are the only 40-year-old on the dance floor? You love to dance!

Let’s take it even further. Let’s say that you want to make a difference in politics, in helping the disadvantaged, maybe there is a disease that has affected you or a family member. There are many, many groups out there that you can join or volunteer to help in their mission. I love small business, mentoring women, and the arts just to name a few. As a result, I have joined boards, given donations, offered my talents, and ran a few races in support of these groups. Sharing that love with these groups has in return, filled my soul. A full soul is telling yourself that you are loved. The bonus is that you love and passion are now helping others feel loved.

There are many ways to spread the love, you might have a talent for accounting or design or organizing things. Not everyone does, so you would be a godsend to many groups. Ask what they need, ask how you can help. You might simply find yourself in a soup kitchen lending a hand. You will never understand how your hand is making a difference in someone else’s life.

People that read might feel lonely if they can’t talk about the book.
People that run or race would love to have someone keep them accountable.
People in need can use so much of everything.
Find your people and spread the love.

Finding Your Passion: Checklist for Remapping Your Career

By Catherine Lang-Cline

When we are children, we have these grand ideas of what we want to be when we grow up. The most common career choices are often firefighter, veterinarian, maybe astronaut. If it is not one of these, it is something else that has been exhibited in some way to us when we are children. Most of us went on to do something else, as we were exposed to many other options as we got older. Where we are now might be a path of where we were expected to go or was a path paved out of necessity. Basically, we took the job because we needed the job.

There comes a time when we have gone through enough places of employment to realize that we are on a path we wish to continue on or we’re on the wrong one. Actually, the thought of going one more step on this path of your career sounds completely exhausting. It may be time to look at your life’s map again and try and figure out your next move. It’s time to find or reignite your passion.

“Finding your passion” may not sound all that practical— the common consensus is often that there is no way to make a living from whatever your passion may be. The thing is, you don’t have to give up everything to find your passion, but you do need to take a little time to think about what it is that makes you truly happy. If you are like me, you get so focused on the current path that you forget to think about what it was that got you excited in the first place. Here's my go-to checklist on how to remap your career.

Seclude yourself and reflect.

Find some quiet time to be alone and write down everything that you really like to do, things that you find rewarding, things that you feel good doing. Do you enjoy organizing, managing, painting, collecting and think about what it is that you get out of it? How do you feel? Why do you like it?

Analyze your unique skillset.

Now write down what skills you have learned up until now, all of them. Have you ever managed a project, trained an employee, built a website, think about everything.

Connect the dots.

For example, you love math, you are an accountant, and you also love animals. Start looking in places that might need an accountant that is affiliated with animals. Think vet, think about a corporation that provides medical benefits to animals, think about the Westminster Dog Show. Another example, you love to decorate but you are currently managing a team of mechanics, think if your skills can be translated; project management, team building, scheduling, training. Can you be presented as a strong candidate managing designers or be a fit to some role in a design firm?

Channel your entrepreneurial spirit.

Think about the idea of you taking everything you have learned and starting your own business. Maybe you have gathered enough skills and have enough passion that you can start something on your own. I was a designer, I created a company to find work for designers.

The deal is this, life is short and you should spend most of your time doing something that you love or at least like. Every skill you have collected at every job you have worked in can be applied to a role that can redirect your career path. Your skills are valuable and you don’t have to just be promoted to the next rung. You can actually step over to another ladder.